I am the Activities Coordinator at Paramount Senior Living. I met Jesse when I went to drop off a resume and was waiting for an interview. Jesse sat in the front row of Michael Milstead's music presentation. With a sweet contented smile on his face, he got up and did his shuffle dance to the music. I knew then I was going to love this guy!
The first week of my employment, Jesse told me of how he became a police officer. I loved to hear his stories. He would get a gleam in his eye, and sometimes a tear when he would talk about his wife. These stories were precious, and so indicative of a life well lived.
Jesse loved to dance, and did at every opportunity. The ladies never lacked a partner.
We would do sing-alongs twice a week. Jesse loved the hymns, and tears would appear in his eyes, "Amen! So let it be!" "Wow!" He would stand up with emotion and place his hand over his heart whenever we did Lee Greenwood's "I'm Proud to Be an American." If I pulled my guitar out of the closet, Jesse would follow me anywhere in the building, hoping for music.
We could always get Jesse to join in for any game - washers, putting, bowling, cornhole. Jesse was a constant participant. If we asked, he came!
Jesse's training as a police officer never left him. We'd have children join us for an activity once a week. We set up targets, and shot them from 15 feet away with Nerf Guns. I told them all to keep going as I gathered darts, that it wouldn't hurt me. I was low to the ground behind the targets. Jesse wouldn't do it for anything.
The day Jesse left Paramount, I cried all the way to work, as did other staff members throughout the day. "Uncle Jesse" was sweet, polite and friendly to everyone, and was loved greatly by residents and staff alike. He was a man of integrity and faith.
To his family and friends, we at Paramount Senior Living extend our condolences. Thank you for sharing this precious man with us.
I have more pictures, if any of the family would like me to email them to you. Please let me know at [email protected]. <3
Gail Ford
AL Activities Coordinator
Paramount Senior Living