Oh my heart. I truly have no words to express this sadness. Susie Canby and I taught together. She helped me run the school my husband and I started. She was my dearest friend. We spend uncountable hours together working and “doing life.” We went to festivals, concerts, ate at amazing restaurants, traveled to conferences and for fun. She came to the hospital as soon as Caden was born. I found out I was pregnant a few days before she found out she had cancer for the first time. We cried together when we shared this news. I was never supposed to be able to get pregnant and we were so happy, and yet we were so sad she was so sick. In true Susie fashion she told me not to worry, she would be fine.
Susie loved everyone she met. Some of the most unloveable people, she always found the good in them. She loved her students. All of her students. Kids with the most difficult behaviors that had been kicked out of school. Kids whose parents were on the verge of a breakdown because they didn’t know how to help their child. Susie loved them. She worked hard to find solutions and plans and resources that worked.
When I first had Caden within weeks I was back at work. I made a nursery next to our shared office for him. We took turns and carried him around with us wherever we went until he started being “on the go.” I hired a babysitter to come play with him once this started and I still remember the first time I had to leave the building without him in the care of that sitter. Susie was there. She heard some yelling coming from the nursery and peeked in the room to find the sitter yelling at my not even one year old, I don’t even remember why. She immediately fired her. I came back from my meeting to find Caden in her arms singing Raffie songs, something they loved to do together. Susie stood up for those that couldn’t defend themselves, always.
My heart broke when Anita called to tell me she was gone yesterday. She didn’t tell me she was close to the end, because that was Susie. She never wanted the attention on her.
She leaves behind her dear son AJ and her soulmate Anita Marie Howard. I have no words for the void. Only that in heaven her body is perfect condition and she isn’t in pain anymore. No more awful medications are needed and I know she is enjoying beautiful music and amazing food with her parents. All is Well.
Rest In Peace my dear friend. Anita I am so sorry I won’t we there on Sunday celebrating our Susie’s life but I will definitely be by to hug you and AJ soon. So much love and prayers for peace during this time.