Ronald and Terry Cain

Birth date: Nov 25, 1946 Death date: Nov 18, 2015

Ronald Lee Cain, 68, of Spotsylvania County, passed away Wednesday, November 18, 2015 at his home surrounded by his family. Ronald started his military career as a Marine during Vietnam and after the war he continued his military Read Obituary

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Stefanie Montoya

23w ago

Hi guys. It’s been 9 or so months since Joey died. We live in West Virginia now. Let me tell you guys, I freakin hate this stupid place. I can’t make more than $12 here because the minimum wage is so damn low. I worked at a “supermarket” called Grants for about 7 months. Learned a lot about produce. A lot that I wish I didn’t know. Ruined fruit for me forever. Frozen fruit for me from now on!
Anyway, the day after tomorrow I’m going back to Roanoke, by myself, to go back to tractor for more than I was making when I left! You know, this will be the first time in my life I’ve ever done anything by myself. I’ve never been without Joey or one of the kids… I’m terrified! It’s really weird not having to explain my every move, not having to answer to anyone, work as much as I need to without the 21 questions. But, I’m scared, much more than I’m willing to admit. Even to myself. I have to keep telling myself that this is my life now. Deal with it. No one is gonna be here for me, no one to help me… I’ve learned who is here for me and who is not.
I love you guys. I miss you so much

Lewellyn Cornett

47w ago

Merry Christmas Mom and Dad! I love you and miss you.

Lewellyn Cornett

60w ago

Hi Mom and Dad. It’s been a long time. I think of you both every day. Mom you would love my house! You’d be so proud of me, Stef. And Matt. We are all doing so well! Amber got married. You’d love her husband Joe. Her and I got litter mate puppies. She has a girl and I have a boy! They are German shepherd/Husky mix puppies. Amber bought a house in Louisa, she on 5 acres of land. Her and Joe are doing great. Matt came up for her wedding. He and Jenny will be coming up in December for a visit. I’m looking forward to that.
I’m no longer in Security. I’m now the Superintendent of Facilities and Support for Nuclear Site Services. My career is going fantastic! I can’t believe I’m looking at retirement plans! We love our camper! We get to see the country much cheaper that way.
Stef has really gone through some tough times. Joey passed away 2 days prior to their eviction. But you’d be so proud…she kept her head up and pushed through and made it work. She’s doing good.
I miss you guys a ton! I love you!

Stefanie Montoya

80w ago

Happy Mothers Day Momma! I love you!!

Stefanie Montoya

99w ago

in honor of Ronald and Terry.

Hi guys! I know it’s been a minute. I’m sitting here with my beautiful sister at her gorgeous new home. Mom, you’d be so proud. You would probably be here more than your own home. I know I’d be here more often if we lived closer. Her bath tub Mom! I could take serious bath in there. Covered in warm water to my neck instead of my belly button.🤨. Spending time with her is beyond wonderful. I feel so close to you and dad when I’m with her. Almost whole again, kinda. I’m so proud of her Guys, she’s come so far and she deserves all of it! My niece and nephew are wonderful people, so fun and funny!! Amber and Gauge have such a fantastic relationship, my kids have a fantastic relationship as well. They talk to each other everyday. You know, the kind of relationship you guys wanted for the four of us. I got to go to Aunt Sandy and Uncle Terrys house and met Lew and Matt there. So good to see Matt again. I thought I would see him a casket or that’s how he’d see me. Thank God, no one had died and we had a really good time! I love you guys and miss you always

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Lewellyn Cornett

141w ago

Happy Birthday Mom! I miss you so much! I think of you everyday.

Stefanie Montoya

157w ago

Been 7 years today Dad. I’m a mess. They said it gets easier, they lied. I miss you more today than ever. I keep replaying it over and over. You weren’t supposed to go so soon!! We weren’t ready! Goddamn I miss you. I love you so much

Lewellyn Cornett

175w ago

in honor of Ronald and Terry.

Miss you guys so much. Love you

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Stefanie Montoya

177w ago

Dad, you sure named your dog right. He really thinks he’s the mighty Thor. He acts like he’s a Doberman. He seems to think he’s scary when in truth he’s getting laughed at. The maintenance people are here fixing something’s and he just kept barking at them like they’re supposed to be afraid. He even nipped at the dudes shoe. He’s such a tough guy 😃
I miss you guys more than ever! Love you so much!

Stefanie Montoya

183w ago

Mom, how did you deal with feeling like a failure of as a mom? Did you ever feel like your kids have nothing in common with you? Like we didn’t need or want your advice or took it completely wrong? How did you deal with that? I’m not trying to put myself or my experiences before theirs. I’m just trying to show them how I did it or how I handled a similar situation. Veronica never talks to me and when she does it’s just for a few seconds. I’m not a phone talker, just like dad wasn’t but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t like to say hello! It feels like they don’t even need me. As long as they have their dad, they don’t need me for shit. How did you deal with it? I wish you were here, I need you so much. I love you and miss you TONS

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