Susan Barnes
It was an honor to be Mary's friend and to serve with Mary on so many school committees for Spotsylvania County. Mary had an ability to see beyond the dates and numbers to consider the students first. She made many wise contributions to the calendar committee and to the Courtland High School Principal's Advisory Committee. Mary was one of those parents who always came to conference night even though both of her daughters were magnificent students. After Joanne graduated I enjoyed many pre-conference dinners with Mary. She always brought gum or mints so I would have "fresh breath" for conference night. Mary made each day count -- she was always ready to help or to just share a smile. I loved her stories about Texas, child raising, and music. I will miss her book recommendations and her sense of humor. She lived with grace and courage. I was not able to attend the memorial service on Saturday, and I want to let Mary's family know that they are in my thoughts and prayers.



