Birth date: May 31, 1947 Death date: Oct 6, 2023
With profound sadness, we announce the passing of James Jackson Smith, a loving father, grandfather, and friend to all whose lives he touched. He left us while sleeping peacefully at his home in Fredericksburg, VA, on October 6, 2 Read Obituary
Eulogy for Dad
Thank you all for being here today. As we gather to remember and celebrate a life truly well-lived, I can't help but think of the myriad of ways in which my dad touched our lives, profoundly and lovingly.
Life isn't always about the hand you're dealt, but how you play it. When my biological father abandoned my mother and me before I was born, it was my dad who stepped in, embracing me as his own.
When my brothers came along, he didn't divide his love; he multiplied it, showering each of us with equal attention and affection. Life got a tad more chaotic. Three children, each with our own quirks, demands, and misadventures. But through every scraped knee on the soccer field and every playful squabble, he stood by us, guiding us, and sometimes, humorously urging us to "walk it off" or "stretch it out."
My childhood was filled with memories of a pink four wheeled power wheel, the first time he taught me how to ride a bike, my first Tai Kwon Do classes, and the realization that school wasn't just a place to play, but a place to excel. Inspired by my sharp, disciplined father in his Air Force uniform, I sought to emulate him in every way. From joining the NJROTC in Potomac high school when we lived in Dumfries and he worked in Quantico, serving in the Navy after high school, pursuing higher education, to carving my own path as a business owner in Tech. He was my compass, pointing me in the direction of ambition, discipline, and kindness.
In every life lesson, whether voiced or silent, there was wisdom from Dad. It was in his silences, his resilience during his toughest days, and his unwavering humor that we learned the most. Like the time he would surprise us with trips to Kings Dominion or Myrtle Beach. When we'd ask where “Where are we going, Dad!” He'd simply reply, "Crazy!" That was dad for you – full of surprises, laughter, and life.
In every friend I made, every colleague I worked with, and every business partner I collaborated with, I saw a reflection of my dad. It wasn't just in their kindness or discipline but in their sheer resilience and will to do good.
As the days passed and his health declined, my heart was a battleground of emotions. Memories of joyful times were interspersed with regrets. But my brother JR reminded me of the most significant lesson our father taught us: to live life fully, on our own terms, just as he did.
As we sit here today, surrounded by so many who were impacted by my dad, I implore you to think of one thing - the essence of my dad you carry with you. Whether it's a lesson he taught, a joke he shared, or a memory that makes you smile.
As we move forward, let's ensure his legacy remains undying. Let’s celebrate his life by paying it forward, sharing the wisdom and love he imparted on us with the world.
Thank you all for being here today, for sharing in our grief, and most importantly, for celebrating the life of our Dad.
James was my neighbor and a friend to me and my husband Donnie who has also gone to be with our Lord! His sons Jay R and CJ are very special since I have known for a very long time ! They have been here for me since my husband passed! They told me that I would always have them as a “family”! Rose and I also became friends! Rest in Peace James, 💕Jeannie
