Mr. Graham(Jay) and his family were our good neighbors and friends especially while they lived in New Windsor. We often visited as neighbors and enjoyed our time and Christian fellowship with their family. We shared many bus stop chats with Jay which always ended with his great ability for laughter, and loved joining him in yard sale fun visits and home improvement chats. He was very intelligent to have a good conversation with. The day often ended with some sweet shared homemade sweets which both he and Diane were excellent at making. We have been blest to have shared continued family times together these past 20 years through the marriage of our children and shared grandchild. Our friend Jay will be greatly missed but remembered for his kind and loving Christian heart. Our love and prayers are with the Graham families at this difficult time. May God wipe away your tears and comfort you as only He can as you grieve. May your wonderful memories of his well lived Christian life bring you peace. Love, the Eaves family