Paula Barnes

Birth date: Jul 19, 1938 Death date: Mar 12, 2016
Gary Loren Barnes, 77, passed away at his home March 12, 2016 following a long illness, with his wife, Paula, at his side. He celebrated 36 years of marriage to Paula on March 8, 2016. Gary was born in Hutchinson, Kansas July 19, Read Obituary

I worked down the hall from Gary while he was in IT and I was in the finance department. He was so cheerful, and always had time to stop and chat. He loved his family so much. My husband and I saw him in character at the Virginia Renaisaance Faire. What a character! He was always kind and thoughtful. He said something to me once when I was wishing for something in the future - he said his mother had told him, "Don't wish your life away." So wise! My condolences to Paula and his entire family.
I worked with Gary for 15 years at Stafford County. Gary always had a smile on his face and a spring in his step! He shared many funny and interesting stories about his life but what he loved the most was his wife Paula, his children, grandchildren and great-grandchild. I miss him every day!
Jane Sutherland
I met Gary at Stafford County where we worked. He made the days more enjoyable with his humor and stories. I will miss him! Kathy Hildebrand
Although I never met Gary, I have been a longtime friend of his sister, Rita. Rita lives in Kansas and loved traveling to see him. I am happy she was able to spend time with him recently. She loved him dearly.
It breaks my heart to hear that Gary had passed away. I only knew hear him from working at Stafford. We would usually run into each other in the elevator. Never once
did I see him that he wasn't smiling and was so upbeat. He was a wonderful person and I am sure he will be missed by many. Prayers and thoughts to his family.
Sincerely,
Linda Gillispie

Gary as Soji wrote..
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have viewed ten thousand moons
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