I started out as Brenda's caregiver and even though that was my primary role, we discovered a bond that neither of us understood, yet were very happy about. I loved her dearly, and I believe she loved me just as much. We developed a deep friendship that felt as if it had always been there throughout eternity. I was with her, holding her hand when she passed, a moment that will be forever etched into my brain. I saw her suffer & struggle so much, yt she was aalost always upbeat, and had a great sense of humor. We talked about literally everything, and she always had good advice to give. She was as much comfort to me as I was to her. We shared the sane issue with the breast cancer....I would like to think, if I ave reoccurence, that I will be the fierce fighter that she was, and keep my head high like she did. She was truly an inspiration to all around her! She has left a huge hole behind that will take quite some time to heal.... prayers are with all of the family, you each know that I share your pain. Love to all of you. There will never be another like her.